What Kind of Teacher Am I?

     When I first became a teacher many years ago, I asked myself what kind of teacher I wanted to be. Did I want to be a teacher who my students feared, or one who my students could consider a friend? I thought back to my own teachers and the kind of relationships I had with them. There were definitely some teachers who I was afraid of. These were the teachers who I tried to avoid as much as possible. I went to their classes, but I hated it.  I never asked these teachers for help or sought their advice out of fear of being yelled at and embarrassed in front of the whole class. However, academically I did well in these classes. Not only was I self-motivated, but I was afraid of what would happen if I didn't come to class, pay attention, complete my work, and turn it in on time.  I knew that these teachers meant serious business and I didn't want to get on their bad side, so I just tried to fly under the radar as much as possible.

        I also had teachers who were kind, respectful, and welcoming. These were the teachers who I knew I could approach and ask for help and I enjoyed going to their classes.  I did well academically in these classes as well, and for many of the same reasons that I did well with the "scary" teachers; I was afraid. I was afraid of disappointing them.  

      So, with this reflection, I decided that I would be the kind of teacher that is somewhat in between. I think that it's important that my students not necessarily fear me, but fear the consequences of their actions. They need to know that certain behaviors are not acceptable and will not be tolerated, so it's necessary for me to be strict and firm in my expectations. But, at the same time, I believe it is important for me to be welcoming, respectful, and kind to my students. I know from experience that when a teacher is "too hard" on students, many will in turn act out. Children, and particularly teenagers, are very proud creatures and become very defensive when they feel that someone is against them or has it out for them. Some refuse to feel intimidated and will even challenge their teachers without any fear of the consequences.  Through many years of trial and error, I have found a way to deal with students that works best for me, and allows me to be true to who I am which is a happy, friendly teacher with high expectations and no tolerance for bad behavior.

The following is a TED Talk video of a speech given by educator Rita Pierson entitled Every Kid Needs A Champion. I hope you find it as inspiring as I do.